No other mammal doubts their ability to give birth.
They seek out isolation - darkness - quiet - and they let the process unfold.
It really is silly, after all, to doubt our ability to procreate when it is quite literally what keeps our species alive.
But the indoctrination is real.
From before we can remember we’re told how painful & dangerous & impossible birth is. We’re told how long aunt Sally’s labor was & how many interventions were “required” & how she almost bled to death.
And then, once we start seeing birth on TV and in the movies, it’s always portrayed as a dangerous, intensely medicalized experience with a lot of rushing around, screaming, and machines constantly beeping.
So it’s no wonder that, by the time we get to be pregnant ourselves, we have no idea what our bodies are capable of.
But the truth is, YOU WERE MADE FOR THIS.
Are there complications in birth sometimes? Of course. But, if left alone and not messed with, the majority of births go well.
If we trusted our bodies to birth like we trust them to digest food or pump our blood or do any of the other incredible processes they do without help or even a thought, the world would be in an entirely different place.